
I don't like to compare myself to other mothers because each situation and child is unique, but I do believe I am the best mother for my daughter. Here are some parenting tips that make it easier to parent my energetic, brilliant, sensitive, and focused girl. This doesn't mean I am perfect or always the best. In fact, many of these lessons I learned by reflecting on mistakes and correcting my behavior. I included links to my blog that speak to each idea, and illustrates what works for our family.
Accept my daughter for who she is right now. It's okay if she doesn't want to attend
ballet class because she can still enjoy dance at home, a setting she feels more comfortable.
Let her hands get dirty in the earth's soil. It was truly remarkable to watch her create her own
flower garden.
Transitions are hard for her. Respond with patience and love when she has trouble dealing with changes.
Create times to connect with her in a playful, positive way.
Give her opportunities to care for others. The best place to start is in our own home, and sometimes I let her
pamper Mommy. Small children are egocentric, but keep encouraging generosity and compassion in relevant ways.
Teach her to contribute to the household. Start encouraging help with
chores at a young age. Be happy for the help even if it's not perfect.
Provide lots of free play time. Her happiest days are when she can spend most of the day playing.
Slow down. Pause to take quiet moments in the day, and spend time
doing nothing with my child. In these times, she can feel appreciated for who she is not what she does.
Share my faith - a belief that there is a God who loves her and can provide her comfort and strength.
Allow my daughter to have her own creative ideas. When we
craft together, I have a vision for how I would like my own projects to turn out, but I allow her to use the provided materials to create something of her very own. Her art pieces rarely look like mine, and I am proud she has her own self expression.
Appreciate my life. Recognizing the beauty in my life and finding time to devote to my passion, creating activities for children, makes me a happier person. Pursue a passion even if it has nothing to do with children.